Updated June 1, 2022

To say that all of us are deeply saddened by the tragedy in Uvalde, Texas, seems inadequate given the tremendous loss of so many innocent lives. Our hearts are with the individuals and families who have been impacted by this terrible act, especially the families who are grieving the death of a loved one. 

Funeral service professionals in Texas, particularly those in the Uvalde area, are becoming personally involved with this tragedy, organizing efforts to support families during their time of grief. NFDA thanks these funeral professionals for the care and compassion they are demonstrating to families and their beloved community of Uvalde. 

The funeral homes in Uvalde have committed to offering funerals at no charge to the families; several vendors are providing merchandise at no charge. 

NFDA has reached out to the Texas Funeral Directors Association and the funeral homes in Uvalde to offer support as they serve victims’ families. We have also sent grief resources to Uvalde to assist families as they begin to grapple with their loss. 

NFDA is committed to helping you navigate the challenges of helping families and communities heal following the heartbreaking events in Uvalde. We’ve gathered resources to help you better serve families during this unfathomably difficult time. 

Thanks to the generosity of the Funeral Service Foundation, all materials will be offered at no charge. 

Please contact us at 800-228-6332 for more information about available resources, to place an order, or if we can assist you in other ways.

Thank you for all you do to support families and communities. 

Offering Financial Support

Funeral Service Foundation

The Funeral Service Foundation announced that it will deploy up to $50,000 in emergency assistance and grief support funding, and is now accepting donations for its Crisis Response Fund in the wake of Tuesday’s mass shooting, which left 19 children and two adults dead in Uvalde, Texas. Click here to learn more and make a gift.

Texas Funeral Directors Association

The TFDA has been getting inquiries from funeral homes and individuals across the country on how they can help the families affected by the tragedy in Uvalde. A fund has been established so those who wish to donate to the funeral homes that have offered to donate their services can do so quickly and in trust to the TFDA to allocate. Click here to learn more and make a gift.

For All Funeral Professionals

For Parents, Guardians, Caregivers, and Educators

• When a Child Dies booklet - learn more about this brand new resource
  • Click here to order printed copies from the Funeral Service Foundation or to embed an eBook version on your funeral home’s website
• Youth & Funerals booklet 
  • Click here to order complimentary printed copies from the Funeral Service Foundation or to embed an eBook version on your funeral home’s website 
• Helping Children Through Their Grief brochure (there is no charge for brochures thanks to the generosity of the Funeral Service Foundation)
  • Click here to order English language brochures
  • Click here to order Spanish language brochures
• Articles by Dr. Alan Wolfelt to share on your funeral home's social media or website
  • Click here to find "Coping with Your Grief Over the Uvalde Murders"
  • NEW - Click here to find "Tips for Talking to and Supporting Children after a School Shooting or Other Traumatic Loss: Dos and Don’ts"

Remembering A Life Podcast Episodes to Share on Social Media or Your Funeral Home Website

• Funerals and Young Mourners: Helping Children and Youth Say Goodbye in Meaningful Ways
• Faith and Grief
• Talking to Children About Death and Funerals

Remembering A Life Blog Posts to Share on Social Media or Your Funeral Home Website

• Navigating Grief After Tragic Loss
• The Process of Accepting Difficult Grief Emotions
• Legacy Projects Help Children Preserve Special Memories
• Child Planned & Led Memorial Service: The Ultimate Grief Activity for Children to Regain Some Control After Devastating Loss
• Five Tips for Talking to Children About Death
• Nurturing Hope in Difficult Times

Remembering A Life Merchandise

While there is no charge for these items, thanks to the generosity of the Funeral Service Foundation, quantities are limited. Please call NFDA at 800-228-6332 to order. 

• Memory jars (appropriate for all ages) 
• Grief journals (appropriate for high school students and adults)

Complimentary For NFDA Members

SupportLinc Member Assistance Program

Working with families that have experienced the death of a loved one in a mass-fatality event can be emotionally and physically exhausting for funeral home staff. NFDA’s SupportLinc Member Assistance Program provides free, confidential resources to help you navigate the challenges and stress of working with families in the most tragic circumstances. Learn more at www.nfda.org/SupportLinc. 

Media Relations Assistance

If you receive calls from members of the media and would like assistance addressing their questions, please contact NFDA’s Director of Public Relations, Jessica Koth at jkoth@nfda.org. 

Public Service Announcement – Funeral Directors Helping Communities Heal After Tragedy